The fundamentally foundational epicenter of Borderline Personality Disorder is abandonment. This abandonment experience can be actual or perceived. Abandonment that is perceived is still very real to the person perceiving it. Many people are unaware of the scope and nature of the wide and encompassing spectrum of all that abandonment is. Abandonment can be very [...]
Life coach, A.J. Mahari, in her latest audio, How To Identify a Toxic Relationship, gives listeners 7 tips on how to identify a toxic relationship. Toxic relationships are becoming much more common than most people may realize. So common, in fact, toxic relationships are the new normal for way too many people. A new normal that is painful and mentally and physically dangerous to health.
Central to one of the main root causes of Borderline Personality Disorder is abandonment. Abandonment leads to profound pain. Pain that must then be abandoned. This abandonment, and its subsequent abandoned pain is the origin and the teacher of the distorted belief that pain must be escaped at all cost.
The unresolved abandonment wound in early childhood and subsequent abandonment trauma experienced and re-experienced by those diagnosed with Borderline Personality (BPD) disorder fuels emotional dyregulation. People with BPD re-experience this abandonment trauma, abandonment fear and depression each and every time they experience an emotional trigger that causes the dissociative experience of re-living unresolved abandonment from the past as if it is re-occuring in the here-and-now. In this audio program A.J. Mahari talks about how and why the core wound of abandonment is at the heart of the cause of Borderline Personality Disorder.