Abandonment
Unresolved Abandonment and Negative Expectations – Break Free
July 31, 2010 · Comments Off
Life Coach and author, A.J. Mahari, has many coaching clients who are dealing with varying degrees of consequences, in their own individual lives and life situations, that are all related to unresolved abandonment issues. Does everyone who has unresolved abandonment end up being diagnosed with a mental illness? In a word, no. However, most people with unresolved abandonment issues, whether they are aware of these issues or not, will experience their manifestation in interpersonal relationships. Unresolved abandonment is a common-ground experience for many who have mental illness and many who end... [Read the full story]
Mental Health
Unresolved Abandonment and Negative Expectations – Break Free
July 31, 2010 · Comments Off
Life Coach and author, A.J. Mahari, has many coaching clients who are dealing with varying degrees of consequences, in their own individual lives and life situations, that are all related to unresolved abandonment issues. Does everyone who has unresolved abandonment end up being diagnosed with a mental illness? In a word, no. However, most people with unresolved abandonment issues, whether they are aware of these issues or not, will experience their manifestation in interpersonal relationships. Unresolved abandonment is a common-ground experience for many who have mental illness and many who end... [Read the full story]
Codependency
Emotional Competence – Part of Overcoming Codependency
March 13, 2010 · 1 Comment
Email This Post Emotional Competence, specifically, to begin with, learning to observe your feelings without reacting to them, is a central beginning in over-coming, among other things, codependency. Author and Life Coach, A.J. Mahari, knows this from her own journey of recovery 15 years ago and from her work with hundreds of clients who have unresolved abandonment issues at the center of what is manifesting as codependency in their lives. Emotional mastery is the challenge when one has unresolved abandonment issues that feul codependent styles of relating. Codependent relating is often... [Read the full story]
Relationships
Core of Toxic Relationships – Codependence
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Email This Post Codependence is a mindset that is at the core of toxic relating and toxic, enmeshed, relationships. It is mindest that leads people, often without being aware of it, to try to get their needs met by and/or through others. Neediness permeates what are weak boundaries to begin with. On one side of the toxic, emeshed, codependent relationship is the needy person. On the other is the person who ends up trying to meet the insatiable needs of that person neglecting his or her own needs in the process. Unresolved abandonment issues manifested and expressed in different ways... [Read the full story]
Authentic Self
Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life
March 27, 2010 · Comments Off
Email This Post Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life – 19 Coaching Exercises To Help You Change Negative Thought Patterns by Life Coach, A.J. Mahari, is a 102 page Ebook chalk full of information and 19 coaching exercises to help you change negative thinking into positive thinking. This Ebook stresses how much you will benefit from focusing postively on the here-and-now so that the decisions you are making today will help you create a positive, successful and productive future. And this Ebook doesn’t just tell you that, it provides you with practical exercises... [Read the full story]
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Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life
March 27, 2010 · Comments Off
Email This Post Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life – 19 Coaching Exercises To Help You Change Negative Thought Patterns by Life Coach, A.J. Mahari, is a 102 page Ebook chalk full of information and 19 coaching exercises to help you change negative thinking into positive thinking. This Ebook stresses how much you will benefit from focusing postively on the here-and-now so that the decisions you are making today will help you create a positive, successful and productive future. And this Ebook doesn’t just tell you that, it provides you with practical exercises... [Read the full story]
Mental Health
Unresolved Abandonment and Negative Expectations – Break Free
Life Coach and author, A.J. Mahari, has many coaching clients who are dealing with varying degrees of consequences, in their own individual lives and life situations, that are all related to unresolved abandonment issues. Does everyone who has unresolved abandonment end up being diagnosed with a mental illness? In...
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Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life
Email This Post Change Your Thoughts - Change Your Life – 19 Coaching Exercises To Help You Change Negative Thought Patterns by Life Coach, A.J. Mahari, is a 102 page Ebook chalk full of information and 19 coaching exercises to help you change negative thinking into positive thinking. This Ebook...
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Suffering is a Choice Related to Unresolved Abandonment Issues
Email This Post Many people experience their emotional suffering as something that is outside of them. Something over which they have no control. The fact is that suffering is really a choice. Say what? Before you get angry or think I’m trying to say everything is your fault, please consider the difference...
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Abandonment is at the Heart of Borderline Personality Disorder
Email This Post The fundamentally foundational epicenter of Borderline Personality Disorder is abandonment. This abandonment experience can be actual or perceived. Abandonment that is perceived is still very real to the person perceiving it. Many people are unaware of the scope and nature of the wide and encompassing...
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The Abandoned Pain of Borderline Personality Disorder
Email This Post Central to one of the main root causes of Borderline Personality Disorder is abandonment. Abandonment leads to profound pain. Pain that must then be abandoned. This abandonment, and its subsequent abandoned pain is the origin and the teacher of the distorted belief that pain must be escaped...
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The Legacy of Abandonment In Borderline Personality Disorder
Email This Post Central to Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is abandonment. The unresolved abandonment trauma of what is a central core wound of abandonment. This abandonment wound, according to author and life coach, and BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari, who recovered from BPD 15 years ago, is the legacy that...
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Abandonment and Borderline Personality Disorder
Email This Post The unresolved abandonment wound in early childhood and subsequent abandonment trauma experienced and re-experienced by those diagnosed with Borderline Personality (BPD) disorder fuels emotional dyregulation. People with BPD re-experience this abandonment trauma, abandonment fear and depression...
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